Where should I begin with this week’s Coffee Share?
This week at work has been a whirlwind. This week was Employee Appreciation Week. Everyday this week during lunch hour we had to set our department booth doing giveaways, outreach, etc. I’ve been on my feet all week at work. Though I had Monday off, these short work weeks feel accelerated. I know I need a vacation — even this vacation staying at home sleeping in and going to a local café for lunch.
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I’m happy to say that my work has a Little Free Library to serve the community. My department launched a mobile LFL where everyday from 11:30am-1:30pm we would bring up the library cart for our patients, visitors, and staff members to enjoy free books. We are major hub for receiving donations in the community where clothes is the most requested — we have patients who come with no spare clothes when they’re discharged. But we’ve had books sitting in our office for a long, long time. They’re hardly requested so we decided to do an LFL. And yes, we definitely do take book donations. Of course they’re be disinfected before they circulate in the LFL. The books we have to replenish the most are the children’s books because people are always looking for new books for their kids (or niece, nephew, grandchild, godchild, etc.).
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I was listening to my favorite podcast, “Happier.” by Gretchen Rubin and Elizabeth Craft going over their 19 for (20)19. I usually love making lists of things to do, but for the last few years my head was in a fog, and I never got around to writing them. I am sure my list that exists in my head is infinite, but yet I want to get around doing it now. Listening to this episode reinvigorated me to write my 20 in (20)20 list to make my new year fun.
Since I did not create a 19 for 20(19) list, I think I’ll create a reverse 19 for 20(19) to reflect on the 19 things I did.
Anyways, here is my 20 in 20(20) list.
- Visit 20 different museums, landmarks, or national parks.
- Try 20 different restaurants. This includes dessert places, food stands, and food trucks. Since I am going to be out of the country in February, for the sake of fairness, I’ll keep it local — within Los Angeles County.
- Try 30 new recipes. Since I finished school, I’ve got more time to be creative.
- Do a 1-second video every day and stitch it into a short video. I heard about the 1 Second Everyday App on the podcast. It reminds me of the one photo a day challenge. We will see how I keep up
- Read and complete 20 different books. I’ve got plenty of books I’ve started and have not yet completed.
- Take 750 classes Pure Barre classes. Stretch goal: Reach to 1000 classes. When we had to stay elsewhere during the home remodel, my barre attendance plummeted. Now since we moved back, I am slowly building back to a regular schedule.
- Add a chalkboard to the pantry door. I am not sure if we should paint the door with chalkboard paint and put a frame on it ala “Friends” or make an actual chalkboard.
- Create an artistic display of our postcards. We get postcards from friends, family, and Postcrossing. I collect postcards too. They are stored in a box, and they deserve to be out.
- Get up to 6 months of living expenses in our emergency fund. Self-explanatory. A lot of our savings went to our home remodel. It is better to have a definitive emergency fund goal, rather than just save for the sake of savings. There were times where I felt tethered. We exceeded our savings goal, and we never bit the bullet for almost anything. People have a funny interaction with money. Which leads me to my next point, we need to have a definition of what constitutes an “emergency.”
- To not buy any clothes and accessories for the year. The only clothing items I would buy are underwear, socks, shoes, and workout clothes. I have a small shoe collection which consists of walking shoes, one pair of fashion boots, two professional shoes which I keep in the office, one pair of sandals, and two pairs of hiking boots. I walk on average 10,000-12,000 steps a day. I have a fair wardrobe of workout wear, and I wear them until they’re worn out.
- Complete a perfect push-up.
- Plant a tree for the front yard. Don’t forget, keep it alive too.
- Clean and dress up the parking strip.
- Plant three herbs for the entryway.
- Make a wreath for the front door.
- Do a power hour once per week. I am obsessed with the idea of power hour. It’s an hour where I tackle all the non-routine things I’ve been meaning to do such as organizing the cabinets, doing our finances, cleaning the inside of the refrigerator, etc. I had a hard time doing a power hour in my previous job because I was working all the time. On my days off, my power hour was more like a power nap.
- Bite the bullet and buy a domain for my blog.
- Get a new FitBit — My Charge 2 is at the end of its life. The heart rate monitor feature no longer works. I can’t believe I’ve had it for four years!
- Host three get-togethers with friends. Maybe we will even get to host Friendsgiving this year.
- Send postcards to friends when I travel. Bonus: Send holiday greeting cards in December.
What is your 20 in (20)20?
At 22, I was a young professional working in an entry-level job at a biotech company in San Diego. The pay was not that great. My expenses were rent, student loan debt, other debt, paying for groceries, and utilities. I did not have a car at the time. I lived in San Diego, a very car-dependent city. For convenience sake, I lived walking distance from work but the rent in my neighborhood was fairly high.
I had a blog and in it, I had a blog series around my $20/week grocery budget. When I first brought it up to people, some were intrigued. Others said it was impossible or that I don’t eat much anyways. Then some told me about 99 cent TV microwaveable TV dinners. Ugh. All thanks to a supportive blogging community, spending $20/week on groceries is possible. It did not involve TV dinners at all, instead, it involved creativity. I knew a bag of spinach could feed me through breakfast (green smoothies) to dinner (salad). A tub of Greek yogurt could be a filling breakfast or a healthy dessert.
With that being said, we are launching our $40/week grocery budget. Why $40 this time? I’m married now which means $20 for me and $20 for my husband. Plus we’ve got a lot of financial things we need to take care of such as remodeling the house and paying our student loans (my husband’s bachelor’s, my Master’s degree). Let’s give it a go… I’ll try my best to journal this personal finance journey if time permits…
If we were having coffee, I would pair our coffee with these matcha butter mochi cakes from Cooking with a Wallflower. These look so good!
Friday I was planning to go to Washington D.C. for a conference, but then something came up. I can’t talk too much about it yet on the blog. So instead of going to a conference, I instead spent my Friday off getting my dog’s hair cut, having lunch with my husband, got someone to work on the front yard, and made a few phone calls about home equity line of credit (HELOC). It was a productive day off. Instead of spending my money to go to a conference, I needed to spend the money to go towards cleaning up my front yard.
My husband is not too thrilled with the fact I prefer to pay someone to remove the overgrown weeds. But let’s be realistic here. I would do home improvement stuff every weekend if I could but that requires us to almost never leave the house each weekend. To get to our home improvement goals, we would need to turn down weekend excursions and hiking trips. When my father-in-law passed away, we had to come down to San Diego for seven weekends in a row for mourning. Plus when he passed away, we spent an entire week there to help with the end-of-life details. After the seven weeks of mourning, we went on our vacation to Peru. The vacation was planned for months. When we finally came back home the yard reverted from a bare canvas to weeds, weeds, weeds. It was turn off. I almost wanted to not go spend the President’s Day weekend in Tuscon so I could focus my weekends on cleaning up the yard.
People interact with money in weird ways. I recalled there was this meme where a person does not want to spend $2/month on an app to help manage their finances but they perfectly justify spending an expensive outfit, an expensive handbag, a car, technology, and the list goes on. People do not want to spend money on healthier, fresher food because it is too expensive, but justify spending money on procedures and medical care. I hate it when people spend shame me — it is absolutely infuriating. Through my years as a project manager, I always look into the ROI rather than the price tag. In the end, I ask myself two simple questions. One is if the gratification is long-term or short-term. The second question is if it brings me peace of mind.